Don’t Be Mistaken, Failure Is A Short-Term Thing
June 4, 2015 12:00 AM EST | 5 min read
Failure Never Lasts Forever
The old proverb says that “a problem shared is a problem halved”.
No matter how empathic and caring we might be, the most natural human reflex is that we feel a shred of contentment when we hear that someone has a similar problem as we do.
Many people spend time together for the sole purpose of sharing their troubles and relieving the stress coming from that.
In line with this premise, every entrepreneur and worker should know that there are going to be some ups, but that downs are not fatal, too.
Variations in everything we do should be accepted as the most normal thing.
Vacation for vacant mind
Pressed by everyday obligations, chores and family duties, a huge number of people simply neglect their own physical and mental health.
When it comes to physical health, if you apply nutritionist’s advice and start working out on a regular basis, you will regain the initial shape sooner or later.
But mental hygiene is a much subtler thing and if you fail to take care of it, the process of revitalizing your mind will last for a long period of time and require a lot of energy and time.
In order to prevent such an unfolding of events, going on vacation is the most important aspect of your career.
No company will fall apart if you go and take a rest with your family and friends.
It will help you clear your head and recuperate from all the junk that has piled up in your brain.
Change the routine
If you have failed at something for the first time in our life, it is not the end of the world.
However, to get back on your feet again, it is necessary to do some changes in your routines.
First of all, you need physical activity to strengthen your mental health.
Of course, working out contributes to general well-being and once you have established a regular rhythm of jogging, swimming and bike rides, you will get through critical periods at much faster pace.
In addition to that, taking up a new hobby is the best thing you could do.
A language course, a band or carpentry can be a terrific escape from something you think was a failure.
It is never too late to start doing something new.
Just think of the people who make a bucket list in their seventies and even manage to do most of the things they have never done it before.
You’re not the only one
Realizing that everybody around you experiences bad periods in something they do could be a soothing fact, but you have to be aware that many successful people have been there and failed at something.
We all know the story about Albert Einstein and his bad habits in high school.
Also, did not manage to pass the entrance exam at his first try to enroll a university.
Also, Steve Jobs lost a job in the company he founded, due to a misunderstanding with the board of directors.
Another great example of persistence and determination to overcome a failure is Nelson Mandela, who was behind the bars for more than twenty-five years.
However, it did not distract him from reaching his ideals.
Such stories are very common and they should serve as a reminder that even if you do not manage to reach something at once, it can be only a temporary distress.
You are still somebody who can either achieve their idealistic goals or become wealthy by a strike of chance or by hard work, and get recognized in what you do.
Meet new people
In business terms, it is highly important who you know.
Working on your own can make you a successful craftsman or a skilled individual, but you need a strong background for significant professional achievements.
Novak Djokovic is an extremely talented tennis player, but he would never be the best player in the world if there weren’t his parents and their vision.
It is extremely difficult to reach stars on your own.
In every single system there is a clear path to success and many people on the way have to be included if an individual wants to become a CEO, a president of a country or an acknowledged sportsperson.
For instance, Bill Gates is one of the wealthiest people in the world, but there is a doubt whether he would have reached stardom if there had not been his cooperation with IBM at the beginning of his career.
The point is that even if you do not succeed in one thing in your life, connecting with new people will help you get where you plan to arrive.
Inspiration all around you
Imagine how artists feel when they become accepted and appreciated after their initial works and then, all of a sudden, their mojo wears out and they are incapable of making a good record or playing a fine role for years.
John Travolta was considered a superstar in the ‘70s, but he simply vanished in the late ‘80s.
Only when Tarantino gave him a role in Pulp Fiction did he regain his once-huge popularity.
The situation gets even worse with heavier artists, such as writers and musicians.
They often experience lows in their careers and need years to overcome creativity crises and come up with something enticing and original.
point is that you should just sit down and observe the world around you and watch people as we watch birds.
It will contribute to finding inspiration in your surroundings and get over personal dissatisfaction.
We all feel better when we succeed in doing something, but life is not a rainbow-covered sky.
Failures must be considered an inevitable part of life and also a great moment to start doing something new and exciting to enrich your existence in every sense.