25 Anais Nin Quotes on Love, Travel, Life and Friends

Allow these Anais Nin quotes to broaden your perspective on life, love, travel, and friends.

Anais Nin was light years before her time.

She was progressive in her ideas and expressed them through the written word in her many published works.

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Anais Nin was a French-American diarist, essayist, novelist, and writer who is most known for her published diaries.

She wrote several novels, critical studies, essays, short stories, and volumes of erotica.

Born to Cuban parents in France, Nin spent her childhood and early life in Europe before moving to the U.S. where she became an established author.

Nin died of cervical cancer in 1977, in Los Angeles, California.

She will always be remembered for her unique expression of femininity, her lyrical style, and her psychological insight.

In honor of the late literary figure, below is our collection of Anais Nin quotes, collected from a variety of sources over the years.

When finished, be sure to check out our Gustave Flaubert quotes as well.

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Anais Nin Quotes on Love, Travel, Life and Friends

1. “The secret of joy is the mastery of pain.” – Anais Nin

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2. “The personal life deeply lived always expands into truths beyond itself.” – Anais Nin

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3. “We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.” – Anais Nin

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4. “We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.” – Anais Nin

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5. “Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” – Anais Nin

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6. Worlds self-made are so full of monsters and demons.” – Anais Nin

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7. “Every word you wrote I ate, as if it were manna.” – Anais Nin

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8. “To lie, of course, is to engender insanity.” – Anais Nin

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9. “Passion gives me moments of wholeness.” – Anais Nin

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10. “I hate men who are afraid of women’s strength.” – Anaïs Nin

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11. “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” – Anais Nin

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12. “Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.” – Anais Nin

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13. “The same chemicals were used in the cooking as were used on the composition of her own being: only those which caused the most violent reaction, contradiction, and teasing, the refusal to answer questions but the love of putting them, and all the strong spices of human relationship which bore a relation to black pepper, paprika, soybean sauce, ketchup and red peppers.” ― Anaïs Nin

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14. “Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back, a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country.” – Anais Nin

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15. “Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.” – Anais Nin

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16. “The possession of knowledge does not kill the sense of wonder and mystery. There is always more mystery.” – Anais Nin

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17. “There are books which we read early in life, which sink into our consciousness and seem to disappear without leaving a trace. And then one day we find, in some summing-up of our life and put attitudes towards experience, that their influence has been enormous.”― Anaïs Nin

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18. “Do not seek the because – in love there is no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions.” – Anais Nin

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19. “Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.” – Anais Nin

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20. “And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” – Anais Nin

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21. “How wrong is it for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it herself?” – Anais Nin

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22. “We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations.” – Anais Nin

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23. “I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much stronger as reason. I am so thirsty for the marvelous that only the marvelous has power over me. Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go. Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls.” – Anais Nin

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24. “Only in the fever of creation could she recreate her own lost life.” – Anais Nin

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25. “In the world of the dreamer there was solitude: all the exaltations and joys came in the moment of preparation for living. They took place in solitude.” – Anais Nin

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Did you enjoy these Anais Nin quotes?

Best known for her contribution to erotic literature, Anais Nin had a lot to say about love.

And regardless of her polarizing personality, she is widely regarded as inspirational.

Nin’s volumes of work remain popular despite her death many years ago.

Hopefully, the above quotes have inspired you as much as they inspired us.

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  1. Ruth

    January 26, 2019 at 11:19 PM

    It is beautiful to love and be free at the same time.!!! I love that!!!

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